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Love Yourself

ashley_rebelmouse

Dec. 01, 2022 12:50PM EST

Hello beautiful people!!! It is Hump Day and also the eve of the over commercialized holiday known as Valentine’s Day! I hope you all are having a productive week, and are ready for the weekend! I know I am! In fact this is the last post before my birthday! The next time I write a post I will be just a little bit older but hopefully much more wiser! With that being said, I hope you allow this young gal to give your PositiviTea for the day!

Love is in the air! Can you feel it? Can you see all of the hearts, cupids, and love birds flying around? I don’t know I’ve always felt like that was made up. But then you know a girl fell in love, and then I started to see it.. So maybe it’s not so made up. But before that even happened I needed to love myself. I know everyone says they know that, but it’s not so easy. Life gets hard. Failure happens. You look at where you are in life compared to other people. It just gets harder to show yourself love and appreciate all that you’ve actually been through.

However, I’m here to tell you that you can love yourself. It’s not a crime. In fact, you have to to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Also you won’t care if other people love you or not. That’s the important part. Once you give yourself the love you deserve, you don’t have to worry about anyone else loving you or not. You know that it’s not about that. It’s about how you treat yourself and if you’re treating yourself accordingly. I always like to tell my friends not to let people take away your peace. Along with that, is not letting anyone stop you from loving YOU!! You can only change that!

So this year for Valentine’s Day, make sure you show your self some LOVE! You deserve it! That’s your PositiviTea!

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